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September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
i agree with their …
i agree with their verdict. sure, the chick could ask the guy to marry her, but that doesn’t mean that he’ll be okay with it. it IS a guy thing. guys & girls think differently; it’s been medically proven, for cripe’s sake. and the rest of her life, that girl would wonder if he wanted to marry her at all.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
y do u swear at me? …
y do u swear at me?? it is my personal opinion ..There are some differences between a male and a female. he should feel as a man meaning if I did everything what will be left for him? and I should feel wanted by hearing him wanting to marry me. knowing I’ll get love,protection,and faith from him in the relation while I’ll give him love,home, and dedication. in this girl’s case he didn’t ask so apparently he don’t want a marriage or else he will get down on his knees.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
yes guys are not …
yes guys are not dogs sure thing, what I mean is u can’t force a man 2 marry a girl & vice versa..she can be open about her views 4future everything should be clear & if he is not welling 4 more commitment then maybe she is not the one he wants,she should leave him & move on,the same thing goes for the man,it is wrong to go thru relation for a long time&then keep her waiting ,that girl who asked the question knows very well ,he don’t’ want a marriage so she will force him by asking by herself ..
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
doesnt the same …
doesnt the same apply for the guy? no matter how you look at it. its the same way.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
stfu. that is …
stfu. that is complete bullshit. jackass. if anything a right of passage for men is having sex for the first time.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
yes but men are not …
yes but men are not very emotional like girls,with the time goes his heart will be healed sooner or later. in the girl case she will feel humiliated, ejected, and unwanted ..cause girls are very emotional she will be crying,feeling down, depression, and eating a lot of ice creams loool,yes guys will be sad about it but I can’t imagine them doing what girls do in breakups! and ya I’m speaking about breakup cause this is will sure happen if he said no to her! it means one thing SHE IS NOT THE ONE!
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
his job to ask….. …
his job to ask…..his job to ask?….okay let me get this straight. HIS JOB TOOO ASK!!!? ok so its your job as a woman to suck ma dick, wash ma clothes, clean the house, take care of the kids, wash the kids clothes, cook food, and anything else that i miss. and guess what? THATS YOUR JOB!. see how it feels now? doesnt have a good ring to it does it? -_- there goes equality.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
That’s terrible …
That’s terrible advice. Because something is not traditionally done, woman should not risk starting it?
Yeah, there’s a chane she will scare alway a guy who did not want that in that point of his life. And you know what? Good for her.
If she wanted to get married and the guy didn’t, now she knows and she can move on.
This whole thing about girls having to wait for guys to take “The Steps” is a ridiculous social rule established in a time when lesser types of man used to call the shots.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
lol fucktard. stfu …
lol fucktard. stfu jackass.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
wtf r u talking …
wtf r u talking about. men r emotional like x50, esp my last beau. matter of fact i got dissed for a lack of emotionalness.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
i’m not. i’m happeh.
i’m not. i’m happeh.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
yup
yup
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
I really fink …
I really fink you’re a 10 years old, the swearing proved that! You have no imagination at all only take ppl words out of their mouth and use it against them, grow up alryt, or at least dun pretend you’re perfect and go on have a real relartionship
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
Whatever, go burn …
Whatever, go burn our bra.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
These 2 have really …
These 2 have really bad advice.. I have not seen a video of theirs I agree with.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
WTF? Thats …
WTF? Thats bullshit, girls have just as much right to ask guys as they do. Im a guy and If I wasent a loser and had a girlfriend I would feel awesome to someone to propose.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
I think it’s fine …
I think it’s fine for the girl to ask, I mean, yeah, it’s not traditional, but who cares! Seriously, who wants to be the same as everyone else?!? Not me:) just because you ask him to marry you doesn’t mean you ALWAYS have to be the initiator….
Plus i thought it was funny how they were like first you’re gonna ask him to havve kids with you then you’re gonna ask him to have sex….. Isn’t that sorta the same thing? kinda? Oh well it made me laugh lol:)
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
Very good point! It …
Very good point! It all depends on your particular relationship. If that works for you, go for it!
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
i agree and …
i agree and disagree.
so you’re saying you can’t propose to a guy just because you are a girl?
I agree w/this advice because if the guy is ready to marry you, he will be willing to get down on his knees and be happy with you the rest of his life or be prepared to have his ego shattered.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
How can asking …
How can asking someone to marry you that bad (whether you’re a woman or a man)?
I remember one of the proposing stories with the woman dressed up as a military attendant (her lover is in the military). After he got out of the plan, she walked up to him and handed him a bouquet of roses–she then unveil herself and asked him to marry her! *very cute*
It’s whatever you’re feeling–nothing is traditional!
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
you are clearly …
you are clearly stupid. At the time when women were asking to be equal, they didn’t have the basic rights that the first 10 amendments gave. That’s the kind of equality women ask for. freedom of speech, the right to bear arms, etc, etc.
Not some stupid nonsense society creates the image of being good, bad, perverted, wrong, etc.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
if you’re telling …
if you’re telling women, they shouldn’t propose then we should keep them out of other territory that were originally MAN owned? lets throw out equality that exist while you’re at it.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
just because the …
just because the woman is the one who proposed doesn’t mean the man suddenly doesn’t have any say in the relationship.
Your comment makes men sound like controlling assholes.
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
LOL!!
LOL!!
September 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
lol im 16 u prolly …
lol im 16 u prolly sum old man who cant get any1 anymore
and i hav had ‘realy’ relationship and just caue the the girl askes a guy dusnt mean all of a sudden she is the one that controlls everything..
get with the time old man