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October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Well I was just …
Well I was just saying how I feel about it. You don’t have to agree with me =)
Anyway, thanks for sharing your story, all the best in your relationship =)
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I will be 27 in …
I will be 27 in November and I’m still a virgin. My boyfriend isn’t but he has grown in morals since he’s been with me, and we are Christians and wether you’re a Christian are not it’s a sin to have sex out of marriage. I’ve noticed that people who has sex outside of that have more problems,drama,sickness and everything else. Bad things happen when you live in sin.
Anyways, me and my bf are waiting till marriage. I cant imagen being with multiple people. That’s just nasty. Your like a toilet.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
wow, if the most …
wow, if the most important thing for you is being “sexually” compatible then you will fail at marriage. Another divorce rate coming up.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
i didnt say i …
i didnt say i wouldnt sleep with a guy i said i would NOT suck his dick. how can u suck it and then kiss your children with the same mouth??!!!!!!!!!!
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Maybe you’re gay.
Maybe you’re gay.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I respect people …
I respect people who would wait till marriage. Personally, I like to try before I buy. I just don’t want to find out that we’re not sexually compatible only after we’re married.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Good point! It does …
Good point! It does come down to personal preference. The same way that if one doesn’t want sex until marriage and the other does, there’s always the chance it wouldn’t work. If the other person sticks around,despite the abstinence, they’re worth it.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I’m no guy, but I …
I’m no guy, but I would think that comes down to where the guy is at emotionally/mentally. Also, I’m sure it’s partly a matter of preference from their own experiences. I think it would be pretty difficult to say definitively if most guys are intimidated by it or not.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Exactly! Besides, …
Exactly! Besides, no guy deserves to get in my pants unless he REALLY loves me…and the only way to prove his love for me is to wait until we’re married. If he doesn’t want to want, he doesn’t truly love me. He just wants some girl to screw around with and dump afterward. Well, I’m not that girl.
But…besides that…what do guys think about virgins? is it a turn-off?
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I have dated a …
I have dated a woman in my life that was a virgin and she was 37 years old. She was willings to do everything else, but sex – however; with 6.7 billion people in the world – no one ever has to settle. Travel more in life – the most passionate nights I have spent in my life were always in other countries.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
These two give the …
These two give the worst advice! If you’re abstinent for religious reasons the point of it isn’t to find some sort of work around so some guy can get his rocks off while you remain a “technical virgin”. its like they decided to ignore this woman’s question about how to deal with telling men she’s abstinent and not make them feel deterred.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
i think oral sex is …
i think oral sex is disgusting. i cant even imagine myself sucking a dick *bleaghh* so gross.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
oral sex is sex! as …
oral sex is sex! as a man to me it depends on how we meet. if we met at church then I respect it but if we met at the club u dancing, gronding etc then the guy may not respect ur wish.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
omgosh i have that …
omgosh i have that freacking problem and its so frustrating when they dont get the reason, haha GOOD ADVICE i’ll totally use it
5 stars
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
ur hookin up with …
ur hookin up with any one? ur still a slut
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
get the drunk
get the drunk
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I do not agree with …
I do not agree with the answer. I am currently practicing abstinence until marriage. But having oral sex.. is what it is.. having sex. If you are going to have oral sex you might as well have sex.
If she is willing to have oral sex, she better be willing to have sex.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
It’s obvious who …
It’s obvious who the and manwhores are from the comments posted, i.e. XXTheRealManWhoreSlutMcCoyXX
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Wake up and smell …
Wake up and smell reality, if she hasnt already had sex in school or collage by the time youve met her then shes definitely got issues that guys dont want to know about, Ive been down this road plenty of times and Ive come to the conclusion that these girls are messed up because of bad parenting and best avoided, plus how can she be any good in bed even after they get married dose he have to fill out the whole blackboard for her? = S
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
fucking bull shit, …
bull shit, I hate that kind of nonsense, it’s so retarded…He dosn’t know what he’s doing with that wommen, If he did they would have had sex already, now he’s just going to dump her as soon as she tells him they have to be married… Don’t play that game, she’s a waste of time!
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
exactly! The point …
exactly! The point is, you need to know what your limits are and be sure to stick to them. Don’t allow others to pressure you into things you aren’t comfortable doing.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I agree with them …
I agree with them for the most part. I, personally, don’t find anything wrong with premarital sex. But I’ll respect people who decide to wait until marriage and know their boundaries, but for now they can do other forms of sexual acts without actually having sex.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
the answer is as …
the answer is as retarded as the question
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
you are horrible …
you are horrible people. some people arnt sluts, sorry assholes. flirting is one thing. oral is a big deal to some people, if its love, he wont care. thats final. you guys really shouldnt be answering peoples questions. you are stuck up.
October 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
This is so easy. …
This is so easy. She must be really shy.